feat(core,fuse,gui,cli): pause/resume sync and a visible upload queue (phase 2)

Backend (docs/UI_UX_PLAN.md B-1, B-2):
- Request::SetSyncPaused { paused, until } pauses the drain worker and the
  mirror reconcile. FUSE reads, write staging, the watcher and the poll keep
  running. The pause is persisted in the `state` table (`sync_paused_until`),
  so it survives a restart; a timed pause ends by itself through a timer
  thread, re-armed on mount. Resuming wakes the drain and runs a full
  reconcile. Response::Status gains `paused` and `paused_until`.
- Request::ListPendingOps lists the queue with paths, attempts, last error,
  next attempt and parked/failing flags. Request::RetryPendingOp { id } makes
  one backed-off op (or every failed one) due now. Parked ops are never
  un-parked and nothing is dropped from the queue.

Front ends:
- Sync page: a status card with Pause/Resume (split button with 1 h, 8 h and
  24 h pauses) and a "Waiting to Upload" list with Retry now and Retry All.
- The sidebar strip and the tray show the paused state; the tray gains Pause
  Sync / Resume Sync and names failing changes.
- CLI: `pdfs sync pause [--for 30m|1h|2d]`, `pdfs sync resume`,
  `pdfs sync queue`, `pdfs sync retry [id]`; `pdfs status` reports a pause.

Not in this phase: merging Activity into the Sync page, discarding a queued
op (needs a recovery copy first), and per-folder pause.

crates/pdfs-core/src/db/mod.rs

@@ -56,8 +56,8 @@ pub use local::LocalFileHit;
 pub use maintenance::{DbStats, VacuumOutcome};
 pub use nodes::{PublishedSharedRoot, SearchHit, StoredNode};
 pub use ops::{
-    AttachedBlob, LOCAL_VOLUME, OP_CREATE, OP_MKDIR, OP_RENAME, OP_REVISION, OP_TRASH,
-    PARK_EXPIRY_MS, PARK_UNTIL, PendingCounts, PendingOp, RenameMeta, op_supersedes,
+    AttachedBlob, FAILING_ATTEMPTS, LOCAL_VOLUME, OP_CREATE, OP_MKDIR, OP_RENAME, OP_REVISION,
+    OP_TRASH, PARK_EXPIRY_MS, PARK_UNTIL, PendingCounts, PendingOp, RenameMeta, op_supersedes,
 };
 pub use photos::{StoredPhoto, THUMB_HAVE, THUMB_NONE, THUMB_UNKNOWN, TimelineRow};
 pub use pins::PinRow;